Nollywood actress and mother of three, Mercy Johnson has reportedly slammed those criticizing her for ‘rushing’ to birth her children as she claimed they are people who do not have direction in life yet.
She said she had always dreamed of having four children and when it is time for a woman to get married, she does just that.
She bared it all in this interview with PUNCH: Read below...
“I feel that when you haven’t gone through life and you don’t
have a bearing in life, that’s when you see certain decisions as
unreasonable. Most of these people who make these statements have not
even realised what they want to do with their lives yet.
“I had planned my life right from when I was growing up. I
arranged my life the way I wanted it to go. And that is why even when I
was at the peak of my career and marriage came, I grabbed it because I
know age keeps going and time waits for no one.
“It means that I can have all of my four kids and then still get
back to shape and come back to what I love to do. So I am not going to
say things like, ‘I don’t want to have kids yet’ or ‘I am not going to
get married and I want to keep acting because the young shall always
grow’, you are not going to be number one forever. That is why when it
is time for you to do something, you do it. Yoruba will always say in
their prayers that when the time for a child to talk has come, by the
grace of God, she will talk. When it’s time to go to school, he will go
to school. That’s what I’m trying to do. I want to define my life in a
way my daughter will want to define her own life,” she said.
She further explained how she has been able to joggle her career, motherhood and marriage.
“I think what has got me this far is placing my decisions on a
scale of preference. I love what I do, I adore my husband, I adore my
kids, so every time I have to make a decision, I pick which is more
important, and I start from there. I understand the home front is more
important so I manage my home and create time to do what I have to do. I
think that has helped me get this far,” she said.
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